Yesterday, I talked about the basics of breastfeeding. Generally, babies need to nurse all the dang time. Today I thought I’d elaborate as to why the freedom to nurse in public is essential, on a practical level:
It’s easy.
That’s it!
Whoops, I said I’d elaborate, didn’t I. Alright. Let’s do the math (I never promised there wouldn’t be any math!). If you’re lucky, during the day you might have an hour and a half between nursing sessions. How much can you get done in that hour and a half? Including travel time? Including packing up the diaper bag and/or stroller and/or car? Not much. Being able to nurse in public — and I mean public public, not just a fancy mother’s room at Nordstrom — is essential if you want to leave the house for more than ninety minutes at a time. If I’m packing up everything, it would be nice to go to the grocery store and the moms’ group on the same trip out of the house. Or maybe I’m tired of trying to prep all my lunches while the baby naps, and I’d like to get lunch out, even if it’s only a sandwich. If nursing in public isn’t allowed — or is discouraged — then these trips are impossible. I can guess, but not totally predict, when an infant is going to be hungry, and I can’t always time it so that I’m home for every single nursing session.
Then there’s the gear issue. You need the diaper bag, with diapers and wipes and a spare outfit. You need the stroller or some sort of wrap or carrier. You need a carseat if you’re going in the car. That’s all just for one baby — it’s even crazier with other kids in the mix. Nursing in public means not having to lug around bottles and a cooler of breastmilk (or formula), on top of all the other baby gear.
Nursing in public means being able to nurse at a playground while an older child plays. It means being able to meet someone for lunch, and nursing while waiting for the food to arrive (or while you’re eating, if you’re skilled and/or hungry enough). It means getting out of the damn house for more than ninety minutes at a time. It means that having an infant does not prevent me from being part of society — but now I’m getting ahead of myself. Tomorrow: a case study of a real day in my life!